I
have 4 daughters...the first three born in hospital and as "natural" as one can
birth in that setting. My fourth child I decided to have at home with a midwife
and was very excited about the freedom it was going to offer me. No stir-ups,
no monitors, no busy nurses jabbing their fingers into me to see if my birth
was going to coincide with their coffee break.
On
the day of Jaymee's birth I went for a lovely walk in a wooded area near our
home and came home with an urge to bake. I spied some extra ripe bananas on the
kitchen table and decided to make a banana bread. Half way through I realized
that I had no baking powder so I yelled for hubby to please run to my mom's for
some (she lives 5 minutes away).
While
he was gone I got the first of my contractions. I looked at the clock and saw
that it was 6:15. I gave the midwife (Leslie) a call to let her know I thought
things had started. It went relatively quickly with my last 3 (aprox. 3 hours)
so the plan was to let her know as soon as any sign of labour started.
Just
as she was telling me that she would eat her dinner and be right over, hubby
walked in the door with my baking powder. I had to sit in a chair because I had
the most ridiculous feeling......it felt like a basketball between my legs! As
you might guess, Leslie skipped her dinner and stayed on the phone with me
while she paged another midwife to head over to our home right away.
I
instructed hubby not to let the banana bread go to waste...please mix the rest
of it up and throw it in the oven for me. I reached down, as Leslie instructed,
and removed my panties from under my skirt and lo and behold I could feel the
baby's head bulging at the perinium! I did a semi-squat, pushed just a wee bit
and Jaymee slid right out into my hands! Her eyes were wide open and she was
the most peaceful serene looking little thing I had ever seen! Hubby was so
shocked he still had a spatula in his hand and I had to yell for him to go get
some blankets until the midwife arrived.
When
Gabrielle and Leslie arrived, they helped get me cleaned up, checked the baby
over and then we all had tea and "Birthing Bread" (it's also been dubbed
"Labour Loaf") hehe.
Now
every year on Jaymee's birthday, the poor kid gets banana bread or cake instead
of chocolate like most kids....just so we can relive the story of her
incredible birth!