We
are proud to announce the birth of Amy Elizabeth Steward. This was my third
home birth. I've never given birth in a hospital. Each of my three daughter's
births were different. The first labor was the longest, lasting fourteen hours.
The second labor was only forty-five minutes long, after having a lot of false
labor during the end of pregnancy. Possibly drinking raspberry leaf tea during
the second pregnancy contributed to the false labors? I didn't use the tea this
time and so anticipated a longer labor.
As
the labor of Amy's birth established itself as being the real thing (by the
appearance of the mucous plug), I decided which room I would give birth in and
set my supplies in there. My husband helped by taking care of our
fourteen-month-old in the other rooms of the house. I preferred to labor alone
this time. Though the contractions weren't particularly painful, I was
uncomfortable during them, and didn't feel that having company would aid the
situation. My five-year-old was in and out of the room, but eventually got
tired of waiting. She helped by telling my husband to bring me the things I
needed.
My
contractions were irregular at first. I timed only a few here and there. They
were never too painful and the ones near the end felt about the same as the
ones at the beginning. So my main problem with this labor was to determine
transition of when I was in second stage. When I felt hot flashes, I thought
that was indicative of being rather far along. By the way, I went through the
contractions standing and squatting with disposable diapers spread out
underneath me. I sat down a few times when I felt tired.
Suddenly
I started to feel as if I was going to have a bowel movement, and then thought
it might be the pressure of the baby's head. I gave an experimental push, then
squatted and leaned into the next contraction, which brought forth the baby,
all at once. It happened so fast that I was utterly speechless. I told my
husband and older daughter that I would call them when the baby crowned, but as
the baby came in about three seconds, I was incommunicado.
I
remembered hearing that by giving the perineum support, you could prevent
tearing, so I supported my own. I also broke the baby's fall. She didn't shoot
out and hit the floor, but did end up on the floor, all blue, wrinkled and
covered with vernix. She cried before I had a chance to wonder if she would.
Then I yelled for my husband who came running in followed by my daughter. He
wanted to know why I hadn't called him. I just said, "I couldn't!" He then
covered the baby over.
My
husband asked if I wanted to sit on the bed...I said I didn't feel like moving
from that spot, so he overturned a dresser drawer, put a pad on it, and I sat
there for an hour until we cut the cord. My placentas take almost three hours
to be birthed, and this one took two and a half hours. I didn't consider this a
complication, just what is normal for me.
The
baby stopped crying very soon and didn't want to nurse right away, though she
nursed later on. She is a very content baby and sleeps for hours between
feedings. One week after her birth she weighed seven pounds, with her clothes
and diapers on. She was six and a quarter pounds at birth. My second daughter
was the largest at seven and three-quarter pounds. I am a small woman.
I
didn't bleed much, even immediately after the placenta. I got back to my normal
activities pretty fast. Unfortunately I lift my fourteen-month-old quite a bit,
yet there have been no ill effects.
I
hear more stories about various complications that people have, but I don't
think it's my karma to have those kind of physical problems.