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Site Updates

May 5, 2008:
At the suggestion of a friend, I've added a donation box to the main page of my site. If you've found my site helpful, please consider making either a monthly or one-time donation. Thank you!

Apr. 21, 2008:
I added a clip from the film "Milk Men: Can we Deliver" to my Milkmen: Fathers who Breastfeed article.

Mar. 28, 2008:
I added a link to an interview I did for Associated Press TV which was shown on the Today Show in Australia.

Mar. 22, 2008:
I added a lovely birth video by Reyvene to my main page.

Mar. 21, 2008:
I scanned in a nice article that was recently published in the UK magazine, Junior Pregnancy and Baby, added a link from my main page to this UC article on the iParenting web site, and updated my Birth Pictures/Videos page. To read my blog posting on the two new articles click here.

Mar. 16, 2008:
I added a lovely video by Sarahjeanne to my main page, and a link to this fantastic article about a woman who had an unassisted birth in India.

Jan. 7, 2008:
To those of you who are wondering where the old forum is, we were hacked! Please join our new and improved (and hopefully more secure!) forum by clicking here.

Dec. 20, 2007:
Check out this video of my family and me swimming with dolphins in Mexico last year. I also posted links on the left side of my main page to more newspaper and magazine articles that have been written about unassisted childbirth.

Dec. 1, 2007:
I scanned in three articles that were recently published in the New York Post, the Sunday Express (UK), and Eve Magazine (UK). I also added a wonderful new story by Vicki Williams called Born Free.

Oct. 7, 2007:
I've added five more stories (the last five on the page) to my birth stories section, and several fascinating newspaper articles from the 1950's and '60's here and here (bottom of the page).

August 19, 2007:
Thanks to my friend Augusta who kindly volunteered to help me with my site, I’ve posted several wonderful new stories: A Stormy Night, a Kitchen Sink, and a Freebirth by Felicity Dowker, Beatrice's Birth of Albion by Beatrice Jasper, and Augusta’s own story, Natural Birth in a Foreign Land. I've also added a great vintage birth clip to my article Laughter in Labor, and added Felicity Dowker's essay I Am to my Unassisted Childbirth section.

Sept. 26, 2006:
We've added lots of new stories in the past few months, and hope to be adding more soon!

May 17, 2005:
The Bornfree Community Forums are now set up! The majority of the website has been redone now, if you find any discrepancies or errors let me know asap!

April 20, 2005:
I am making a lot of changes to the website. It would be pointless to list them all as there are so many! The links in the menu above should all work and some may go to old pages. It will all be updated soon!

April 10, 2005:
NEW BORNFREE! BOOKSTORE ADDITIONS! - At long last, this wonderful childbirth book, "Childbirth Without Fear" by Grantly Dick-Read is back in print!!
A shipment of this book should be arriving within a week!

Also just in is a shipment of "A Clear Road to Birth" DVDs for those of you who don't want it in VHS format.

 


What's new in the world of Unassisted Childbirth?
~ by Laura Shanley ~

May 1, 2008:
The "20/20" motherhood show has been postponed. As soon as a new air date has been announced I'll post it here.

Apr. 21, 2008:
I'm excited to announce that I'll be appearing on ABC's "20/20" on May 16th. I'll be speaking about unassisted childbirth and orgasmic birth!

Mar. 21, 2008:
The Trust Birth Conference was fabulous! You can read about it in my blog.

Dec. 1, 2007:
Several weeks ago I was asked to speak at the Trust Birth Conference! I hope to see many of you there!

August 19, 2007:
Unassisted Childbirth (freebirth) articles continue to appear in the news. I've posted links to most of the articles on the left side of my main page.

July 18, 2007:
I'm pleased to say that a major TV station in the UK has commissioned a documentary about unassisted childbirth! The producers are hoping to find three women or couples either in the US or the UK that are planning unassisted births and are willing to be interviewed both before and after the birth. They may also be interested in speaking with women who have already had unassisted births (but only in the UK). Those of you who are interested can email me and I'll put you in touch with the producers. In other UK news, I wrote about my recent UK TV appearance in my blog. Check it out - UC on UK TV.

July 3, 2007:
I finally have a moment to breathe! The Guardian article inspired a wave of publicity that is just now subsiding! I've done nine interviews in the past two weeks, including one for a TV show in London!

May 13, 2007:
It's Mother's Day and life in "Unassisted Childbirth Land" is hopping! Two UC articles were published this week, Going it alone by Viv Groskop for the Guardian (UK) and Baby's Day Out for Westword (Denver, CO) by Jared Jacang Maher. Overall I was pleased with the Guardian article, although at the end there is a birth story that ends with a transfer to the hospital. It would have been nice to end the article on a more positive note, but the birth story wasn’t horrendous, and wouldn’t necessarily dissuade someone from having a UC. I felt the tone of the article was positive, and I enjoyed my interactions with the reporter. I don’t agree with one of the writers she quoted, Tina Cassidy, who said that "there is virtually no historical precedent for this movement: 'Since the beginning of time women have turned to other women for help in childbirth.'” As I wrote after the NY Times article was published, there actually is historical precedence for women giving birth alone. Some of the other comments made by Cassidy were actually somewhat supportive of UC.

The Westword article was more extensive, and also ends with a transfer to the hospital. As often happens, there are “quotes” from me that need correcting. In describing Willie’s birth he wrote: “The baby, she realized, was traveling the birth canal upside down. 'And I said to my husband, "What do I do, do I call an ambulance?"" I never said this. However, David did ask if he should call an ambulance and I said no. I have never asked anyone what I should do in labor, as I've always felt that essentially I should do nothing!

I spent quite a bit of time with Jared (the Westword reporter) - two in-person interviews, and several phone conversations. And as he states in the article, he listened to the talk I gave at the ICAN meeting. I think his intentions were good, but I can’t say he really grasped what I was talking about to the extent that I hoped he would. The dangers of medical intervention weren’t really addressed in the article, and the fact that the article ends with a transfer no doubt will leave many people with the impression that transferring with a UC is typical. The “professionals” interviewed for the article came across as “the voices of reason.” In my talks, in my book, and on my web site I address the belief that throughout history, women and babies have routinely died in childbirth (more often it is due to poor living conditions than lack of medical assistance). But Jared did not choose to share my thoughts on that subject, or perhaps they were edited out of the article. The article contains two nice clips from Judy Seaman’s UC documentary, A Clear Road to Birth.

In other news, last week our local paper ran a big article about my daughter Joy! A model of good health: Local model enjoys career as a size 12. Congratulations, Joy!

September 26, 2006:
After reading a post on my forums from someone who wondered if I was still around, I decided I'd better check in! My life has been fairly uneventful this past year. David and I survived our first year as empty nesters, and actually enjoyed the peace and quiet! Michelle (19) just started her second year of college, Joy (23) is still going to school and modeling (look for a curvaceous mannequin made from a mold of her body at Talbot stores across the country this fall!), Willie (26) is still writing for the Denver Post, and John (28) just started a new job working for The Foundry in Boulder. In honor of Willie's birthday (Aug. 17th), Willie and Joy went skydiving last month!

 



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